what do i do?
if im a clannish person and don't want to go out into the world because of cultural diversity, what should i do?
im 30 with borderline personality, ive never been employed, because of my problems....suffered alot of trauma.....never gained any qualifications....have a long mental health record....a petty criminal one to.
i ive in a one bedroomed flat on benifits....no posessions except a computer.
my ultimate goal is to live in a small seaside, coastal town, village....in my own house....an ok job....and a loving partner...and a few decent friends..
but iam at great disadvantages....i have physical health worries to...im overweight...have 2 missing teeth...torn ankle ligaments....a crooked little finger...ive aged in the face badly....my joints ache and are weak....im thirsty alot...i have bad anxiety constantly....worry i have diabetes to.
i want to live in a small village by the sea not in a big city with cultural diversity, but at my disadvantages, how will i do it?
You are overwhelmed because you are looking at all your "disadvantages" at the same time. Taken one at a time, none of them is insurmountable at all. Make a list of those things which need to change before you can begin to meet your goal. Start with one step toward the first item on your list. Don't just remain paralyzed by that fact that you have much to overcome. Take it little by little. Then when you have worked through that list you can make a proactive list, what do I need to DO to make this happen, like look for a job, save money to move etc..
You know , you can do this if this is what you dream. Just keep a picture of yourself living in this small village by the sea fixed in your mind and follow your dream step by step.
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